I’ve just recently bought Jemima Fox’s book, just as you reccommended, but I need some help thats not offered within those pages. You see, my boyfriend and I lived together before splitting up, which makes it extrememly difficult to follow through with the no contact phase for 4, or even 2 weeks. Its been three days and I already feel myself wanting to contact him about bills that will be due shortly, because they are all in my name, and he, and our other room-mate still occupy the house. The lease is up in March, so this wont be going on for much longer, but to save everyone from hassle both me, and Brian decided to keep the bills in my name until then. Im unsure of what to do because although I want to follow through with all of the steps, seeing/talking to him seems inevitable due to my responsibilities. Please help advise me as to what I should do…ps. the no contact phase is the hardest thing ever!..every day that goes by that he hasnt gotten in touch with me hurts a little bit more than the last.