Part II: Going Beyond The Basics…
Hey girl, thanks for joining me!
You already deserve a big hug from me. By making it to this page, you’ve proven that you are trying to take control of your situation. It takes a special kind of girl to make that first step. So well done!
More Questions Than Answers?
When I was going through my own traumatic breakup, I read a LOT of relationship advice looking for answers. Some of it was useful, but mostly I ended up with more questions than I did answers.
I really was an emotional mess for a while. The thing that eventually turned things around for me was my decision to invest in some specialist advice. I seriously considered therapy/counseling, but I just couldn’t afford to see someone face-to-face.
So I decided to see what I could find on the net…
For less than the price of one counselling session, I bought pretty much every Guide I could find on how to get my guy back. I uncovered about 11 Guides in total (yes, I REALLY wanted my guy back quite badly).
For one weekend I did nothing but read and read and read, soaking up all the strategies and tactics they gave me. It became my mission to learn every trick in the book. I knew I only had one shot at this.
Of the 11 Guides that I bought, two of them were head and shoulders above the rest. If I were in the same situation again (knowing what I do now), I’d get hold of just these two Guides and focus all my energy on doing everything they say.
So if you’re completely sure you want your guy back and you’re serious about this, I suggest you do the same (worst case scenario – you get a refund).
I’ve talked about them below. Let me know if you find this useful 
Essy xx
1. The Win Him Back System
If you’ve spent any time on the net searching for answers, you’ve probably seen the website of Jemima Fox. Her Win Him Back System is talked about all over the internet.
I’ll be honest with you. I almost didn’t buy this, simply because it’s the MOST EXPENSIVE Guide out there by quite some way (it won’t be for you though, more on that in a moment).
“But the fact is, she is THE authority
on using reverse psychology principles
to win back your guy.”
In fact, if you arrived at this page from one of my other video guides or articles, I’ll let you into a little secret – most of what I talked about in them, I learned directly from Jemima. And my stuff barely scratches the surface of what she goes into (but since I don’t own the copyrights, unfortunately I can’t go into too much detail).
The Pro’s:
- From a personal point of view, without a couple of the methods Jemima teaches, I wouldn’t have gotten Jason back (my boyfriend).
- It teaches you the exact psychological ‘hot buttons’ you need to push in order to get your boyfriend crawling back to you. And then, how to keep him in love and addicted to you.
- She claims that the feedback she gets shows an 83.5% success rate for getting your boyfriend back. Of course, it could be that she is getting more emails from girls who had success with the system and that the unsuccessful ones don’t email him, but still the number is quite impressive.
The Con’s:
- This is not a “feel good” Guide on breakups: at times, some of the things Jemima reveals don’t make for comfortable reading, because she is brutally honest about everything.
It’s expensive.Update: with my discount the price falls in line with other Guides.- The reverse psychology principles she teaches are powerful (and at times sneaky) stuff. If you are hesitant to “manipulate” your ex, and play psychological games with his mind to get him back, maybe this is not the best Course for you. In that case you might want to look at “The Magic of Making Up” course by T. Jackson below.
The bottom line is, if you don’t mind a little sneakyness, and want to take serious measures to get your ex back, Jemima’s course is the fastest and easiest way to get him back in my opinion. And with my special “Essy Discount” that I negotiated for you, it needn’t cost you a lot anymore either .
Her Guide IS Expensive. But I’ve Got Some VERY Good News…
- I somehow managed to convince Jemima to give my readers an exclusive 40% discount (there is one small catch, which Jemima explains here).
How did I manage to convince her to give you a 40% discount?
A few of my articles have gotten quite popular on the internet, so I suppose I have a bit of negotiating power. But mostly it’s because I’ve developed a good email friendship with Jemima based on the help she gave me when I was going through my relationship issues.
With the discount, it brings the cost of her Win Him Back System in-line with the other Guides on the market… so to me it becomes a no-brainer to get it. Watch this video on how to qualify for the 40% discount.
As far as I am aware, she doesn’t give discounts to ANYBODY else, so I guess you’ve come to the right page
(yes, I twisted her arm).(she even recorded a special video message just for my readers )
#2 Magic of Making Up Method
My first impressions of this weren’t great. But looks can be deceiving; once I’d bought it, I found it so useful that I read it all in one sitting.
2 Reasons Why My First Impressions Weren’t Great:
- The Magic Of Making Up is not strictly for girls who want their ex boyfriend back. It’s also for guys who want their girlfriend back. That’s why I assumed it would be less good than products that are directly aimed at girls.
Why? Well obviously the psychology of a man is very different than that of a woman. Therefore, tactics that work for guys could have little value for girls, and the other way around. - The second objection I had, was that the website looks extremely cheesy to me! But maybe that’s just me.
Why I’m So Glad I DID Buy It:
Like I said though, I was really surprised when I read this course. T Dub Jackson has a very straightforward approach to the general handling of a breakup. He just takes you by the hand and shows you what to do, step by step. If you follow his method it’s nearly impossible to get this wrong!
I can tell you his tactics definitely work. This is a powerful and no-nonsense “step-by-step” guide to getting your lover back, no matter if you are a girl or a guy, and T Dub Jackson should not be underestimated just because of his lack of website design skills.
The main reason I like his stuff – he’s a GOOD guy
Something about T Dub Jackson I feel I have to mention.. Although I appreciate some sneaky psychological methods myself, like the ones Jemima covers in her course, this T.W. guy is actually a nice person. I get the feeling that he’s in it to help people, and that’s pretty cool. If you get his audio course, you can listen to his calm, reassuring voice on your iPod or whatever. I really like to listen to this guy, he has charisma for sure.
And yet another big benefit.. The Magic Of Making Up is not just “theory”, he gives you loads of examples. For instance the package comes with example letters that you can just copy, so you don’t have to be very creative to use the system, you can just fill in the blanks.
Conclusion
- I am still a big fan of “Miss Sneaky” Jemima Fox, but I have to admit that “The Magic Of Making Up” is a great system too.
- It’s just cool that he really believes in what he does: Getting couples back together that belong together. And he’s mighty good at it too!
- If you want to win your guy back, but you don’t want to be too manipulative, this is definitely a great product.
- An 8 out of 10 score for T Dub.
Here’s My Sneaky Trick For What To Do Next…
Out of the 11 Guides I read, these two are hands-down the best (I don’t suggest doing what I did and buy them all, because it’s best to follow just one or maybe two systems). Both have slightly different approaches, and it’s hard to say which will be better for you without reading them for yourself.
So here’s my tip… GET THEM BOTH:
1. The Win Him Back System, and;
…and then whichever one you find suits your personality the best, send the other one back for a refund (last time I checked they both had a money back guarantee).
However… if you’re anything like me you’ll like some bits of each one better than the other, and you’ll end up deciding to keep both of them like I did
Do let me know how you get on with them or how I can be of more use to you. And before I go, the absolute best of luck to you. I know it sucks right now, but there’s always light at the end of the tunnel (even if it doesn’t seem it at the moment).
My closing tip – make doubly sure that you take the right advice, as you only get one shot at this. This is kind of the reason why I wrote this page, because sometimes it can be pretty difficult to know where to turn.
Stay strong, I’m rooting for ya!
Essy xx
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Thanks Essy! I ended up ordering Jemima’s system and I’m onto her Phase II now. My ex has already contacted me so it’s working, but I’m going to be strong and stick to exactly what Jemima says. I’ll let u know how I get on.
My relationship with my ex before we were even together was that we were good friends, as in friends for about 7 years. At first, I felt that our relationship was becoming something bigger than just friends, so I asked him out. He said yes! Than about 3 weeks later, I felt it would hurt our relationship if we got into a fight so I broke up with him. We were still friends. About a year and a half later, our other friends were messing around saying he should ask me out. I never thought he would. But he did!!! I said that I didn’t know if I should at the moment and then about a week later, I said yes. About a month after we started dating again, he broke up with me for the same reason I broke up with him the first time. It has been a couple of weeks since the breakup and I am absolutly miserable without him. I see him every day so it’s like a constant reminder. I really want to know what I can do to get him back. If you read these, please help me!!!!!!!
Sincerely, girl in need, Kayla
Hea your advice sounds promising and I am ready to put into action but not to make an ex like me but to make a guy I am “kinda with” want to really make me his girl friend. but the thing is we are 5 1/2 years apart and if he got caught being with me at this point he would be looked down upon so we have been through a lot. I am not sure what he wants so I get really stressed I want him to want what I want but I feel when I just end up pushing him away. It is really hard cuz I get so stressed about it and what makes it harder is that in the past we were together and I introduced him to a friend that was 2 years older than me and they started hanging out behind my back and he really wanted me to just leave him alone but me and him are going back to what we used to be I just don’t want to feel like I am going to lose him even when I don’t even have him. Ill cry randomly cuz I don’t know what I should do.