hi Essy,
my bf of 4 yrs (we were dating for a yr, then i broke up with him for 2 yr, and got back again for 6 months) just broke up with me 2 weeks ago. We were LDR for the last 6 months, so obviously i call him and like “stalk” him a lot. He told me i give him stress and he wants to focus on school and doesn’t want to deal with a relationship at all. and he said, if i want a chance for relationship, it has to be in the future (after 5 yrs) but nothing’s guaranteed. But, i can’t live without him. and i want him back. i tried not calling him but i feel so hopeless. His friends were hinting me that he might have a crush on someone, but my bf said no. I think he wants his space and wants to meet friends and just be himself, and with me he can’t really do that. Please help me and tell me what to do. i need to get him back. i want to be with him forever. and there’s just too much between us that i can’t let go. he finally picked up my call today (after one day of me not calling him at all) but i asked a really stupid question (are you dating someone?) and he got really mad and said “i have to go, i will call you LATER” and hung up. i think i blew it. but will this be forever? do i lose my chance forever? please help me get him back. PLEASE
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Hey,
What can I do. There is this really hot guy that I loved for a long time. I have so much to do in the day time I can’t talk to him, but every night I called him. Then the next day he called me to tell me it’s over. He said that he couln’t do it because he is hurting. But we was dating for about 6 months then out of the blue, it’s over. What can I do, I can’t live without him. Please some one help me. Please just because I’m 14 doesn’t mean I can’t love anyone!!!