I really need some help I been living with my BF for 4 years and we have been together for five years. We have a three year old son together and for a year now since he has gotten a job he has been coming to me mentioning that he needs a break. He comes to me and states that he needs a break. I kinda feel like I have something to do with it cause I have been nagging him about the stuff I been finding in his phone. I read some of his phone messages to another female around the timing he has been mentioning he needs a break and I feel like I have lost him to someone else. Now he at the point where he states that he is fed up and if we stay together that we will be just friends and nothing else cause he feels like he wants a peace of mind and he can’t get that with me. I think I have lost him and I don’t know what to do. Please help it sounds crazy but I really love him.