Let me tell you about some of the resources I found most useful during my own relationship troubles. I read a LOT of relationship advice looking for answers. Some of it was useful, but mostly I ended up with more questions than I did answers.

The thing that turned things around for me was my decision to invest in some specialist advice. I couldn’t afford to see someone face-to-face so I decided to see what I could find on the net.

For less than the price of one counselling session, I bought pretty much every Guide I could find on how to get my guy back. I uncovered about 11 Guides in total (yes, I REALLY wanted my guy back quite badly). For one weekend I did nothing but read and read and read, soaking up all the strategies and tactics they gave me. It became my mission to learn every trick in the book. I knew I only had one shot at this…

Of the 11 Guides that I bought, two of them were head and shoulders above the rest. If I were in the same situation again (knowing what I do now), I’d get hold of just these two Guides and focus all my energy on doing everything they say. So if you’re completely sure you want your guy back and you’re serious about this, I suggest you do the same.

I’ve talked about them below. Let me know if you find this useful Essy xx

#1 Ashley Kay’s Ex Recovery System

If you’ve spent any time on the net searching for answers, you’ve probably seen the website of Ashley Kay. Her Ex Recovery System is talked about all over the internet.

I’ll be honest with you. I almost didn’t buy this, simply because it’s the MOST EXPENSIVE Guide out there by quite some way (and if you actually want to talk to her 1-to-1 it’ll cost you $80 an hour).

“But the fact is, she is THE authority
on using reverse psychology principles
to win back your guy.”

In fact, if you arrived at this page from one of my other video guides or articles, I’ll let you into a little secret – most of what I talked about in them, I learned directly from Ashley. And my stuff barely scratches the surface of what she goes into (but since I don’t own the copyrights, unfortunately I can’t go into too much detail).

Her Guide IS Expensive. But I’ve Got Some VERY Good News…

• I somehow managed to convince Ashley to give my readers a rather attractive discount – like… 40% attractive!
• Partly it’s because a few of my articles have gotten quite popular on the internet, so I suppose I have a bit of negotiating power. But mostly it’s because I’ve developed quite a good email friendship with Ashley based on the help she gave me when I was going through my relationship issues.
• With the discount, it brings the cost of her Ex Recovery System in-line with the other Guides on the market… so to me it becomes a no-brainer to get it. As far as I’m aware she doesn’t give discounts to ANYBODY else, so I guess you’ve come to the right page

Ashley Kay’s Ex Recovery System

Ashley gives 40% off for all my readers (yes, I twisted her arm).

Go to secret offer page on Ashley’s website now >

The Pro’s:

• From a personal point of view, without a couple of the methods Ashley teaches, I wouldn’t have gotten Jason back (my boyfriend).
• It teaches you the exact psychological ‘hot buttons’ you need to push in order to get your boyfriend crawling back to you. And then, how to keep him in love and addicted to you.
• She claims that the feedback she gets shows an 83.5% success rate for getting your boyfriend back. Of course, it could be that she is getting more emails from girls who had success with the system and that the unsuccessful ones don’t email him, but still the number is quite impressive.

The Con’s:

• This is not a “feel good” Guide on breakups: at times, some of the things Ashley reveals don’t make for comfortable reading, because she is brutally honest about everything.
• It’s expensive. Update: with my discount the price falls in line with other Guides.
• The reverse psychology principles she teaches are powerful (and at times sneaky) stuff. If you are hesitant to “manipulate” your ex, and play psychological games with his mind to get him back, maybe this is not the best Course for you. In that case you might want to look at “The Magic of Making Up” course by T. Jackson below.

The bottom line is, if you don’t mind a little sneakyness, and want to take serious measures to get your ex back, Jemima’s course is the fastest and easiest way to get him back in my opinion. And with my special “Essy Discount” that I negotiated for you, it needn’t cost you a lot anymore either .

#2 T Dub Jackson’s MAGIC OF MAKING UP Method

My first impressions of this weren’t great. But looks can be deceiving; once I’d bought it, I found it so useful that I read it all in one sitting.

2 Reasons Why My First Impressions Weren’t Great:

• The Magic Of Making Up is not strictly for girls who want their ex boyfriend back. It’s also for guys who want their girlfriend back. That’s why I assumed it would be less good than products that are directly aimed at girls.
   
  Why? Well obviously the psychology of a man is very different than that of a woman. Therefore, tactics that work for guys could have little value for girls, and the other way around.
• The second objection I had, was that the website looks extremely cheesy to me! But maybe that’s just me.

Why I’m So Glad I DID Buy It:

Like I said though, I was really surprised when I read this course. T Dub Jackson has a very straightforward approach to the general handling of a breakup. He just takes you by the hand and shows you what to do, step by step. If you follow his method it’s nearly impossible to get this wrong!

I can tell you his tactics definitely work. This is a powerful and no-nonsense “step-by-step” guide to getting your lover back, no matter if you are a girl or a guy, and T Dub Jackson should not be underestimated just because of his lack of website design skills.

This Video Of His Really Helped Me…

A very cool thing as well, is that he just shows you in a video the first step that you should take to get your ex boyfriend back. So you don’t even have to buy his course yet to get a quick peek at what’s in there.. And I can tell you this is very powerful information that you can just get for free. (The video is right at the top of the website. )

Of course most girls will have already made the big mistakes that T.W. talks about in his short video. Luckily, in his full method he provides you with all the tactics that you should use when you have pushed your ex away in the beginning! So you can really turn things around even if you did put yourself in a difficult position before. Cool stuff.

Another reason I like his stuff – he’s a GOOD guy

Another good thing about T Dub Jackson I feel I have to mention.. Although I appreciate some sneaky psychological methods myself, like the ones Jemima covers in her course, this T.W. guy is actually a nice person. I get the feeling that he’s in it to help people, and that’s pretty cool. If you get his audio course, you can listen to his calm, reassuring voice on your iPod or whatever. I really like to listen to this guy, he has charisma for sure.

And yet another big benefit.. The Magic Of Making Up is not just “theory”, he gives you loads of examples. For instance the package comes with example letters that you can just copy, so you don’t have to be very creative to use the system, you can just fill in the blanks.

Conclusion

• I am still a big fan of “Miss Sneaky” Jemima Fox, but I have to admit that “The Magic Of Making Up” is a great system too.
• It’s just cool that he really believes in what he does: Getting couples back together that belong together. And he’s mighty good at it too!
• If you want to win your guy back, but you don’t want to be too manipulative, this is definitely a great product.
• An 8 out of 10 score for T Dub.