here is my situation:
my boyfriend broke up with me three weeks ago. the first week was really terrible. i was mopy and everything the first week. but the second and third week, ive been keeping my head up. and trying to make it look like im “moving on” so far it is kind of working.
I send him a message the first week pouring my heart out to him. but i didnt beg for him to come back, i simply told him why i did want him back, and what i would do to make things better. and i shared some of our memories with him. but i also said, if you choose not to be with me, ill accept it. my friend(his friend too) said that ben has been thinking about getting back with me. (he broke up with m e because he wanted space) but boys are so confusing, so you don’t really know what they are really feeling. one night he was confused about his feelings i believe, and he told payton that he didnt want me back because he didnt want to be with the same girl his whole life and he wanted to give other girls a run for their money. and payton told me that. that night i honestly cried so hard..the next day, payton told me he told me what he said..and payton said ben started freaking out saying “what did you do that for??!” then the same night ben texted me and was acting flirty and talkative..i thought we would get together that night but we didnt. unfortunately. but im still convinced he kind of wants me back and he really does love me, i think he’s just confused right now and needs time. then yesterday, my friend bethie said that during study hall, this guy named cedric kept accusing ben of flirting with this girl tyra(but he wasnt) and ben was like “i have a girlfriend, and im not flirting” when she told me that, i broke down..and colby(my OTHER guy friend that is friends with ben) said that he asked ben if he was talking to another girl and bens like maybe but wouldnt tell who. i dont think ben is over me fully, and i still think he loves me and everything but you know. so i told payton all this and he asked ben if he was talking to a girl, and he said no. (normally ben tells the truth to payton) so i mean i just dont know who or what to believe right now. i really love him and want him back. but who doesnt want their ex back? ben is everything to me. he really brings light into my life. what do you think about this? and can you give me some advice on what to do to get him back in this type of situation? i just need some tips and pointers.
thank you, paige.