Comments for How To Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back http://exboyfriendhelp.com Wed, 22 Feb 2012 11:53:46 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 Comment on How To Win Back Your Ex Boyfriend’s Heart (My No-Nonsense Guide) by Maria http://exboyfriendhelp.com/front#comment-6100 Maria Wed, 22 Feb 2012 11:53:46 +0000 http://exboyfriendhelp.com/?p=1698#comment-6100 Hi Essy, I love your site. I have a diffrent sittuation. My BF and I haven't broke up yet. We are just having a break,some time apart. We've been dating for two months and a half and last week we both did some mistakes. Firstly he was and still is very busy with work and I got very frustrated that he didn't have enough time for me and what really got me angry was that on Valentines Day and night he had to work and we didn't get to see eachother at all. He sent me a text wishing me Happy Valentines Day and thats about it. I was hoping till the last minute that he would surprise me somehow and we would meet for a little while at least. I was wrong and when I realised that nothing would happen I decided to go out on my own and get drunk as a revenge. I sent him a text telling him that I was going out to get drunk and I suggested that we give eachother some space since he is so busy with his work. He responded to my text at 2am when I was a little bit drunk and he thought I wanted to break up with him. I ended up going to his house and he didn't answer the door for a long time. When he did open up he didn't let me in.He didn't want me there, so I decided to go. He did fallow me and tried to talk to me and we spoke for a little while but it was obvoius that he didn't want me there so I left. The next day I realised that it was me that started all this. Although there is no excuse for his behaviour, I triggered it. He felt terrible after that and he started to text me and ask me how I am and all that. I responded and I appologised for my behaviour(going out on my own on Valentines night and getting drunk and turning up at his door drunk). He appologised as well and explained that the way he acted was so out of character for him and it only happened because he was so angry at that point and he allowed himself to become completly detached. He asked of me to forgive him and he told me he loves me. I told him that it will take time for me to forgive him but I have accepted what happened. He then said that he is gratefull for me giving us another chance and that he wants us to try and work a way through. It was all good at that point. What I did next was very stupid(so I think). After telling him that I would not disconsider him in my actions again(I disconsidered him when I went out to get drunk on my own), I decided to go out with one of my GF without telling him. I told him a couple of days later and he got so upset that he would not speak to me now. I feel like I haven't done anything wrong but I did disconsider him. He said he wished I told him I was going out with my friend and not hide it from him. He now said that he needs time to think about everything. He tells me he loves and he misses me and he still wants to see me but he needs some time first. I have apologised for my behaviour and I promised to him this time it won't happen again. I can't do any more than that. I am respecting his wish of having some time to think about things and I haven't been in touch with him. He wrote a couple of lines on FB saying:"Just logged on to let you know I'm still gutted about what's happened...but you're in my thoughts and I miss you. Oh, and I love your profile picture. Love you. xxx". I responded to his message but no more than that. I don't know if I am doing the right thing. If you have the time to read my story, can you please advise me on this. I love him very much, and I know he loves me to, but I don't want to be making any more mistakes. Thank you for reading my story and I am looking forward to hearing your advice. Hi Essy,
I love your site. I have a diffrent sittuation. My BF and I haven’t broke up yet. We are just having a break,some time apart. We’ve been dating for two months and a half and last week we both did some mistakes. Firstly he was and still is very busy with work and I got very frustrated that he didn’t have enough time for me and what really got me angry was that on Valentines Day and night he had to work and we didn’t get to see eachother at all. He sent me a text wishing me Happy Valentines Day and thats about it. I was hoping till the last minute that he would surprise me somehow and we would meet for a little while at least. I was wrong and when I realised that nothing would happen I decided to go out on my own and get drunk as a revenge. I sent him a text telling him that I was going out to get drunk and I suggested that we give eachother some space since he is so busy with his work. He responded to my text at 2am when I was a little bit drunk and he thought I wanted to break up with him. I ended up going to his house and he didn’t answer the door for a long time. When he did open up he didn’t let me in.He didn’t want me there, so I decided to go. He did fallow me and tried to talk to me and we spoke for a little while but it was obvoius that he didn’t want me there so I left. The next day I realised that it was me that started all this. Although there is no excuse for his behaviour, I triggered it. He felt terrible after that and he started to text me and ask me how I am and all that. I responded and I appologised for my behaviour(going out on my own on Valentines night and getting drunk and turning up at his door drunk). He appologised as well and explained that the way he acted was so out of character for him and it only happened because he was so angry at that point and he allowed himself to become completly detached. He asked of me to forgive him and he told me he loves me. I told him that it will take time for me to forgive him but I have accepted what happened. He then said that he is gratefull for me giving us another chance and that he wants us to try and work a way through. It was all good at that point. What I did next was very stupid(so I think). After telling him that I would not disconsider him in my actions again(I disconsidered him when I went out to get drunk on my own), I decided to go out with one of my GF without telling him. I told him a couple of days later and he got so upset that he would not speak to me now. I feel like I haven’t done anything wrong but I did disconsider him. He said he wished I told him I was going out with my friend and not hide it from him. He now said that he needs time to think about everything. He tells me he loves and he misses me and he still wants to see me but he needs some time first. I have apologised for my behaviour and I promised to him this time it won’t happen again. I can’t do any more than that. I am respecting his wish of having some time to think about things and I haven’t been in touch with him. He wrote a couple of lines on FB saying:”Just logged on to let you know I’m still gutted about what’s happened…but you’re in my thoughts and I miss you. Oh, and I love your profile picture. Love you. xxx”. I responded to his message but no more than that. I don’t know if I am doing the right thing.
If you have the time to read my story, can you please advise me on this. I love him very much, and I know he loves me to, but I don’t want to be making any more mistakes.

Thank you for reading my story and I am looking forward to hearing your advice.

]]> Comment on How To Win Back Your Ex Boyfriend’s Heart (My No-Nonsense Guide) by sunita http://exboyfriendhelp.com/front#comment-6096 sunita Wed, 22 Feb 2012 05:33:31 +0000 http://exboyfriendhelp.com/?p=1698#comment-6096 Hi, Me and my boyfriend broke up last 2 month b4. Our relationship is of 6 years, at start we were not serious abt things and not commited, just coz of his mom and dad decision he moved on, he calls me when he misses n me too.But the thing is he is engaged and going to get married soon after 3 months. and i want him back in my life soon.This moment made me feel that we cant live without each other. He has just taken the decision, diplomaticaly, which in future may cause problems in our lives. The main decision is coz of casteism and financial crises in his life. He is stressed out, n still shares each and every problem with me,he was in love with a girl and was serious abt her in college times,we have such a good bonding that he shares each and every good or bad things from me. Please take this query seriously and reply me back so that i can get him back asap. Thanks, Hi,

Me and my boyfriend broke up last 2 month b4. Our relationship is of 6 years, at start we were not serious abt things and not commited, just coz of his mom and dad decision he moved on, he calls me when he misses n me too.But the thing is he is engaged and going to get married soon after 3 months. and i want him back in my life soon.This moment made me feel that we cant live without each other. He has just taken the decision, diplomaticaly, which in future may cause problems in our lives.
The main decision is coz of casteism and financial crises in his life.
He is stressed out, n still shares each and every problem with me,he was in love with a girl and was serious abt her in college times,we have such a good bonding that he shares each and every good or bad things from me.
Please take this query seriously and reply me back so that i can get him back asap.

Thanks,

]]> Comment on How To Win Back Your Ex Boyfriend’s Heart (My No-Nonsense Guide) by Anon http://exboyfriendhelp.com/front#comment-6095 Anon Wed, 22 Feb 2012 04:31:03 +0000 http://exboyfriendhelp.com/?p=1698#comment-6095 So, my ex-boyfriend (Wesley) of approx. 11 months and I broke up about 5 months ago, long story. To get over him, I started dating someone new, Justin. Justin and I have been together for... 5 months, as mentioned, and have had some issues with my ex. I'm not over Wesley, we were closer than ever when we were together and after 11 months had been through anything and everything together. He was the first person I had sex with as well, so it was a big deal for me. He was honestly the first person I ever loved and had a serious, lasting relationship with. I'm a sophomore in high school and know that there are more relationships like these to come, but I feel like I'm never going to be able to get over Wesley. Thing is... Wesley goes to my school, and so does my current boyfriend, Justin. Justin and I occasionally see Wesley on campus and Wesley even says hey to me at times. Justin sees how I try to hide the fact that I'm excited when Wesley says hey to me and it really bothers him. I promised Justin that I wouldn't talk to Wesley and have since been lying to him and talking to Wesley behind his back. He's caught me several times and been very upset with me for lying to him, which I don't blame him for. Wesley also has a girlfriend, Hannah. He's doing the same thing that I'm doing, which is hiding the fact that we talk to each other from his girlfriend. While Wesley and I were together, he cheated on me with Hannah and I later forgave him for it... mistake. Wesley and I dealt with many issues that involved me being very untrustworthy with him because of the things he had done in the past, but I still love him and don't know what to do to get over him. I love Justin with all my heart, but feel like some of that love is taken from Justin because I still have feelings for Wesley as well. Like I said, I've been dealing with this ongoing issue for 5 months and don't know how much more of it I can take. At this point, I feel like there's nothing left to do because I always breakdown and text/call Wesley when I'm lonely. Throughout my relationship with Wesley, the things he did caused me to feel like I couldn't trust anyone and I seem to be taking it out on Justin when I know he doesn't deserve it. What should I do now? So, my ex-boyfriend (Wesley) of approx. 11 months and I broke up about 5 months ago, long story. To get over him, I started dating someone new, Justin. Justin and I have been together for… 5 months, as mentioned, and have had some issues with my ex. I’m not over Wesley, we were closer than ever when we were together and after 11 months had been through anything and everything together. He was the first person I had sex with as well, so it was a big deal for me. He was honestly the first person I ever loved and had a serious, lasting relationship with. I’m a sophomore in high school and know that there are more relationships like these to come, but I feel like I’m never going to be able to get over Wesley. Thing is… Wesley goes to my school, and so does my current boyfriend, Justin. Justin and I occasionally see Wesley on campus and Wesley even says hey to me at times. Justin sees how I try to hide the fact that I’m excited when Wesley says hey to me and it really bothers him. I promised Justin that I wouldn’t talk to Wesley and have since been lying to him and talking to Wesley behind his back. He’s caught me several times and been very upset with me for lying to him, which I don’t blame him for. Wesley also has a girlfriend, Hannah. He’s doing the same thing that I’m doing, which is hiding the fact that we talk to each other from his girlfriend. While Wesley and I were together, he cheated on me with Hannah and I later forgave him for it… mistake. Wesley and I dealt with many issues that involved me being very untrustworthy with him because of the things he had done in the past, but I still love him and don’t know what to do to get over him. I love Justin with all my heart, but feel like some of that love is taken from Justin because I still have feelings for Wesley as well. Like I said, I’ve been dealing with this ongoing issue for 5 months and don’t know how much more of it I can take. At this point, I feel like there’s nothing left to do because I always breakdown and text/call Wesley when I’m lonely. Throughout my relationship with Wesley, the things he did caused me to feel like I couldn’t trust anyone and I seem to be taking it out on Justin when I know he doesn’t deserve it. What should I do now?

]]> Comment on How To Win Back Your Ex Boyfriend’s Heart (My No-Nonsense Guide) by Chloe http://exboyfriendhelp.com/front#comment-6090 Chloe Wed, 22 Feb 2012 02:14:37 +0000 http://exboyfriendhelp.com/?p=1698#comment-6090 Hi Essy~ I am really lost as to what to do. My ex and I have had a lot of trouble the past year, but we've been together for almost 4 years. Last year I made a huge mistake of sleeping with someone else when things were going downhill for us. It was really stupid for me and I regret it but alas, you can't turn back time. He wasn't paying me as much attention as he used to, which led me to doing that which was dumb. He broke up with me 4 months later and was seeing someone else. We then decided to make things work and he broke it off with her. Three months down the track and I am yet again, dumped by him. I know it's my fault, but we are a really good couple together. He's definitely not perfect but when we are in love, we are really happy. He told me he loves me, but I guess he's not 'in' love with me. I've downloaded countless ebooks, but the thing is, I live with him which makes it extremely hard to follow the no contact rule and such without looking mopy or feel like i'm ignoring him. Could you please help me, as I am desperate to have him back in my life. Chloe x Hi Essy~

I am really lost as to what to do. My ex and I have had a lot of trouble the past year, but we’ve been together for almost 4 years. Last year I made a huge mistake of sleeping with someone else when things were going downhill for us. It was really stupid for me and I regret it but alas, you can’t turn back time. He wasn’t paying me as much attention as he used to, which led me to doing that which was dumb. He broke up with me 4 months later and was seeing someone else. We then decided to make things work and he broke it off with her. Three months down the track and I am yet again, dumped by him. I know it’s my fault, but we are a really good couple together. He’s definitely not perfect but when we are in love, we are really happy. He told me he loves me, but I guess he’s not ‘in’ love with me. I’ve downloaded countless ebooks, but the thing is, I live with him which makes it extremely hard to follow the no contact rule and such without looking mopy or feel like i’m ignoring him.

Could you please help me, as I am desperate to have him back in my life.

Chloe x

]]> Comment on How To Win Back Your Ex Boyfriend’s Heart (My No-Nonsense Guide) by Avalon http://exboyfriendhelp.com/front#comment-6083 Avalon Tue, 21 Feb 2012 18:45:42 +0000 http://exboyfriendhelp.com/?p=1698#comment-6083 Hey Essy, I need some help... My exboyfriend and I have been on a really bumpy road. We had been together for little over a year. His parents do not approve of us because we are too young (15 years old). He broke up with me back in November because of it. Back when we first started liking each other, my former friend use to like him but they never really talked to each other or were official. Anyhow she started a lot of drama and claimed I stole him from her but they never actually went out. She has caused a lot of problems in our relationship by throwing herself at my exboyfriend. He told her he liked her and held hands with her when they were at a choir retreat. It crushed me but eventually he said he was sorry and I forgave him. On valentines day he told me that we should just be friends because it would be easier because his parents still don't approve of us. But later in the day I found out that he likes my former friend again. I don't know what to do. He says I'm his bestfriend and I'm the only person he trusts and he still has feelings for me but he likes the other girl as well. I wish I could tell him off and be done with him. I know I have a lot of life ahead of me to date other guys but i can't get myself to just let go of him. I want him back stupidly enough. Help): Hey Essy,
I need some help… My exboyfriend and I have been on a really bumpy road. We had been together for little over a year. His parents do not approve of us because we are too young (15 years old). He broke up with me back in November because of it.
Back when we first started liking each other, my former friend use to like him but they never really talked to each other or were official. Anyhow she started a lot of drama and claimed I stole him from her but they never actually went out. She has caused a lot of problems in our relationship by throwing herself at my exboyfriend. He told her he liked her and held hands with her when they were at a choir retreat. It crushed me but eventually he said he was sorry and I forgave him. On valentines day he told me that we should just be friends because it would be easier because his parents still don’t approve of us. But later in the day I found out that he likes my former friend again.
I don’t know what to do. He says I’m his bestfriend and I’m the only person he trusts and he still has feelings for me but he likes the other girl as well. I wish I could tell him off and be done with him. I know I have a lot of life ahead of me to date other guys but i can’t get myself to just let go of him. I want him back stupidly enough. Help):

]]> Comment on How To Win Back Your Ex Boyfriend’s Heart (My No-Nonsense Guide) by Loli http://exboyfriendhelp.com/front#comment-6075 Loli Tue, 21 Feb 2012 08:03:22 +0000 http://exboyfriendhelp.com/?p=1698#comment-6075 Hello; I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 years and we were great. we had some ups and downs but we always come back together. but last week his parents started thinking about divorce. so he broke up with me because he said that he doesn't want our future to be the same like them. he said that he still loves me but we can't be together anymore. I did step 1 and 2 but he was understanding. so now we are in the limited contact. we are acting like we have been friends forever. we text, call and hang out together. but that is not not enough for me, I want him back as my lover. I'm scared that he will always see me as a friend and forget me as his girl friend. please tell me how to get him back. Thanks Hello;

I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 years and we were great. we had some ups and downs but we always come back together. but last week his parents started thinking about divorce. so he broke up with me because he said that he doesn’t want our future to be the same like them. he said that he still loves me but we can’t be together anymore. I did step 1 and 2 but he was understanding. so now we are in the limited contact. we are acting like we have been friends forever. we text, call and hang out together. but that is not not enough for me, I want him back as my lover. I’m scared that he will always see me as a friend and forget me as his girl friend.

please tell me how to get him back. Thanks

]]> Comment on How To Win Back Your Ex Boyfriend’s Heart (My No-Nonsense Guide) by Jennifer http://exboyfriendhelp.com/front#comment-6072 Jennifer Tue, 21 Feb 2012 04:52:01 +0000 http://exboyfriendhelp.com/?p=1698#comment-6072 Hi Essy, Ive got a little bit of a situation ... My boyfriend, Eric, and I broke up about 7 months ago .. I did all the wrong things when we broke up. Texting, calling .. blablabla. Id get a handle on myself, then hed pop back into my head . A little back story, I started dating him about 4 months after my other ex of 6 years broke up with me . Im more devastated by this break up than the last . Eric has since had a relationship .. Not sure if theyre still together. I have deleted him from my social network and I dont call him unless I go out and have a few drinks .. He works in a bar, and to be honest, while we were together, I was the girl that was okay and trusting enough to be with someone who works in a bar .. I have my insecurities as we all do. We went on vacation together two weeks before we broke up. We fought a bit on vacation .. But nothing major that a kiss couldnt fix. When we got back, we talked about how we didnt want to go down that route .. that we didnt want to fight about stupid things that wouldnt matter the next day .. In any case, he felt that I had some issues to work out . An eating problem which I have struggled with forever . Fast forward a few months after we break up, and he calls me out of the blue .. Wants to come over and talk .. i thought that this was my chance .. But he never showed . About two months ago, on my birthday, he showed up at my house .. Did something that Im not too proud of , cause I gave him all the power . I havent seen or heard from him since. I cant seem to move on, I know deep down that I should be with him . We have mutual friends, but I make a point to not be at the same place at the same time . Is there anyway you think I can salvage this ? Please give me pointers .. Im not desperate .. But Im not far from it .. Hi Essy,

Ive got a little bit of a situation …

My boyfriend, Eric, and I broke up about 7 months ago .. I did all the wrong things when we broke up. Texting, calling .. blablabla. Id get a handle on myself, then hed pop back into my head .

A little back story, I started dating him about 4 months after my other ex of 6 years broke up with me . Im more devastated by this break up than the last .

Eric has since had a relationship .. Not sure if theyre still together. I have deleted him from my social network and I dont call him unless I go out and have a few drinks ..

He works in a bar, and to be honest, while we were together, I was the girl that was okay and trusting enough to be with someone who works in a bar .. I have my insecurities as we all do.

We went on vacation together two weeks before we broke up. We fought a bit on vacation .. But nothing major that a kiss couldnt fix. When we got back, we talked about how we didnt want to go down that route .. that we didnt want to fight about stupid things that wouldnt matter the next day .. In any case, he felt that I had some issues to work out . An eating problem which I have struggled with forever .

Fast forward a few months after we break up, and he calls me out of the blue .. Wants to come over and talk .. i thought that this was my chance .. But he never showed .

About two months ago, on my birthday, he showed up at my house .. Did something that Im not too proud of , cause I gave him all the power .

I havent seen or heard from him since.

I cant seem to move on, I know deep down that I should be with him . We have mutual friends, but I make a point to not be at the same place at the same time .

Is there anyway you think I can salvage this ? Please give me pointers .. Im not desperate .. But Im not far from it ..

]]> Comment on How To Win Back Your Ex Boyfriend’s Heart (My No-Nonsense Guide) by abby http://exboyfriendhelp.com/front#comment-6057 abby Mon, 20 Feb 2012 20:00:47 +0000 http://exboyfriendhelp.com/?p=1698#comment-6057 Hey Essy, My boyfriend broke up with me a couple of days ago after a two year relationship. We both are in highschool still. He told me he no longer liked me like the way he use to and just wanted to be friends. I accepted the friendship in order to try and get him back and I broke all the rules with crying and pleading for him to give me one more chance. The day after the break up I told him we couldn't be friends and he said he was sad that we couldn't. If I give it time do you think he will want to get back together? Hey Essy, My boyfriend broke up with me a couple of days ago after a two year relationship. We both are in highschool still. He told me he no longer liked me like the way he use to and just wanted to be friends. I accepted the friendship in order to try and get him back and I broke all the rules with crying and pleading for him to give me one more chance. The day after the break up I told him we couldn’t be friends and he said he was sad that we couldn’t. If I give it time do you think he will want to get back together?

]]> Comment on How To Win Back Your Ex Boyfriend’s Heart (My No-Nonsense Guide) by Caitlin W http://exboyfriendhelp.com/front#comment-6051 Caitlin W Mon, 20 Feb 2012 18:44:17 +0000 http://exboyfriendhelp.com/?p=1698#comment-6051 Hey Essy, My boyfriend and i recently broke up and honestly i'm not dealing with it too well.he says he doesn't have any more than friend feelings for me anymore.I love him and want him back so bad!! :( I have major issues when it comes to men and relationships...trust,jealousy etc i've been hurt alot.He was so good to me but i was so worried about him hurting me or leaving me that i ended up driving him away with all my negativity :( I want more than anything for him and i to get back together! I feel so crappy about how things ended up,i should have known that he isn't like other guys i've been with or like other guys in general and now i'm left with myself to blame.He and i are remaining friends...he usually doesn't stay friends with ex's but he made an exception for me because he and i were like best friends before we even got together, I am wondering if there is another reason behind this decsision.I am hoping the friendship will lead back into a relationship at some point he knows i love him and want him back and i'm trying not to seem needy and what not.I'm just trying to be the best possible friend to him right now.If i do get another chance i know now what i have to work on to make it last.Hes a really good guy! Is there hope for me? Hey Essy, My boyfriend and i recently broke up and honestly i’m not dealing with it too well.he says he doesn’t have any more than friend feelings for me anymore.I love him and want him back so bad!! :( I have major issues when it comes to men and relationships…trust,jealousy etc i’ve been hurt alot.He was so good to me but i was so worried about him hurting me or leaving me that i ended up driving him away with all my negativity :( I want more than anything for him and i to get back together! I feel so crappy about how things ended up,i should have known that he isn’t like other guys i’ve been with or like other guys in general and now i’m left with myself to blame.He and i are remaining friends…he usually doesn’t stay friends with ex’s but he made an exception for me because he and i were like best friends before we even got together, I am wondering if there is another reason behind this decsision.I am hoping the friendship will lead back into a relationship at some point he knows i love him and want him back and i’m trying not to seem needy and what not.I’m just trying to be the best possible friend to him right now.If i do get another chance i know now what i have to work on to make it last.Hes a really good guy! Is there hope for me?

]]> Comment on How To Win Back Your Ex Boyfriend’s Heart (My No-Nonsense Guide) by Lacy http://exboyfriendhelp.com/front#comment-6043 Lacy Mon, 20 Feb 2012 10:39:58 +0000 http://exboyfriendhelp.com/?p=1698#comment-6043 My boyfriend and i broke up 6 months ago, we were having problems, i couldnt communicate at all and i wasnt always honest with him but he would freak out on lil things that in my mind didnt matter and he eventually cheated on me. After breaking all the rules i tried the no contact rule for 2 months. After we got back into contact i broke all the rules again. we started talking everyday, saw each other a few times, and becuase we were talking everyday we got really really emotional and freaked out at each other in what we called "explositons". eventually it got to the point that we had to stop talking. We havent talked in over a month now, i have contacted him once on my birthday and once while i was in the hospital but got no reply both times. the thing is i am much calmer now, can control myself, have been dateing, and am seeing someone i really really like. in all aspects i have moved on and i can live my life without jeremiah (my ex) and i can be happy. the only problem is i still think i can love him and i still miss him from time to time, and if given the choice i would want to get back with him and get our life back becuase we had been living together and were ring shopping when the relationship ended. I just dont know how to initiate contact after the disaster the first time and after so long and him not responding to my texts im not sure how to pick up the phone and call him or what to say to him if he even answeres? and if he doesnt i dont know what kind of voicemail to leave? help? My boyfriend and i broke up 6 months ago, we were having problems, i couldnt communicate at all and i wasnt always honest with him but he would freak out on lil things that in my mind didnt matter and he eventually cheated on me. After breaking all the rules i tried the no contact rule for 2 months. After we got back into contact i broke all the rules again. we started talking everyday, saw each other a few times, and becuase we were talking everyday we got really really emotional and freaked out at each other in what we called “explositons”. eventually it got to the point that we had to stop talking. We havent talked in over a month now, i have contacted him once on my birthday and once while i was in the hospital but got no reply both times. the thing is i am much calmer now, can control myself, have been dateing, and am seeing someone i really really like. in all aspects i have moved on and i can live my life without jeremiah (my ex) and i can be happy. the only problem is i still think i can love him and i still miss him from time to time, and if given the choice i would want to get back with him and get our life back becuase we had been living together and were ring shopping when the relationship ended. I just dont know how to initiate contact after the disaster the first time and after so long and him not responding to my texts im not sure how to pick up the phone and call him or what to say to him if he even answeres? and if he doesnt i dont know what kind of voicemail to leave? help?

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